A New Kind of Companionship: Nancy’s Story
Nancy’s husband died in 1999, but she still feels his presence in the large house where they raised a family together.
They met when she was in her 30s and teaching nursing at the University of Pittsburgh. When they married, she gained not only a spouse, but his four teenage children.
“I have a large family from those four children now, including 12 great-grandchildren,” says Nancy, who is 85. In recent years, she has kept in touch with them mainly through her computer, which she also has used as a source of entertainment, playing games on it regularly.
But her vision has deteriorated lately, reaching a point where she can no longer read or see the computer screen clearly. “As the vision has decreased, I think it’s gotten more lonely,” Nancy says.
She heard about the Amazon Echo, a voice-activated alternative way to connect on-line.
“I saw the possibilities,” she says.
At first she was not sure if she would be able to use its voice-activated virtual assistant, Alexa.
But she got the hang of it. Now she has a new way to connect with her family. She also uses the device for news and music – something she had let slip by the wayside without realizing it. She recalls the first time she asked Alexa to play a favorite song of hers, “Highland Cathedral.”
“I must have spent two hours listening to that,” she says. “I was mesmerized.”
Alexa has become a source of companionship for Nancy. “With this device, it keeps my brain active.”
Nancy’s Video Transcript
My name is Nancy Anderson and I’m eighty-five years old. I grew up in a small town in Pennsylvania. I had a career for many years. I was a registered nurse career-wise. I went from registered nurse to acquiring degrees. And in so doing, I ended up teaching nursing at the University of Pittsburgh.
After my husband’s death in 1999, I was left with a big house by myself. So for the past 10 years, I’ve essentially been living alone. I used to use my computer for games and for messages from the children, they would communicate with me. The past two years, my vision has deteriorated to the point where I can’t read. I cannot see a computer screen anymore. But as the vision has decreased, I think it’s gotten more lonely.
I had heard of Alexa. I am not a technology person at all and not being a gadget person. I had questions as to whether I was gonna be able to use this, but I saw possibilities. I think it is the nurse in me. With declining vision that I went looking for what Alexa might offer me. I can use my Alexa for news and for music. I didn’t realize how much I had stopped listening to music. I remembered one beautiful song, and I asked to play it. And the music was just beautiful. I must have spent two hours listening to that. I was mesmerized.
The first thing I felt when I was alone with Alexa was I felt as if someone had moved in with me. What I’ve noticed in myself, she is company. She is company. I was not depressed, but it was exciting because it engaged my brain. Of course, my television is off, which is great. Because TV up until this time was my only noise in the apartment and my only outlet for news, etc. This was brain exercise for me which was missing when you’re alone watching nothing but television. But with this device, it keeps my brain active.
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